What to do…

  • Do not confront the abuser.
  • When speaking to the victim, assure her that she is not the cause of the violence.
  • Be prepared for her to minimize or deny the abuse.
  • Help her identify her own strengths and possible resources.
  • If she is living with her abuser and chooses to leave, discuss a safety plan if there is advanced time.
  • Tell her about Turning Point